Infra red port

[rishu dhawan]

hi,

i am using my Nokia 6610 with an infra red port, i also
have an infra red port on my computer and it is running
windows xp. I wanted to use the nokia PC suite ver5.0 to
connect to my mobile, but windows xp automatically tries
to establish a connection as a result my nokia software is
not able to conect to the phone, saying that the
connectivity is not possible as some other programme is
using the infra red port....

any help or suggestions would be highly appritiate....
regards
rishu dhawan