On Tue, 10 Jul 2012 11:13:10 -0500, friedemann
wrote:

I am sole user and administrator on the computer so there is no need for
the sharing button and I want my PC to completely load up while I get my
coffee when I cold boot in the morning.

so question is can I eliminate this selection button so the computer
completely loads up?

Google "xp auto login", like this:
http://www.google.com/search?q=xp%20auto%20login

There you go.