Cant send video but can recieve - Help!!!

On my messenger it has under the *start/stop camera*,
where the black (video) screen is, there is a button that
says *options* with a drop down menu, click on the
*send/stop video*. Hope that helps
-----Original Message-----
I am running Windows XP pro and using Windows Messenger
when i click on the
have a video and voice conversation with another person
using XP i can see
their video but they cant see mine HELP - i am not
behind the firewall and
neither are they. Please Help ME


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